Introduction

Stephen, one of the first seven deacons appointed in the early church, is a notable figure in the New Testament. His story, found in Acts 6:1-8:1, illustrates his character, virtues, and the profound impact he had as a follower of Christ. Stephen’s life and martyrdom offer rich insights into the virtues of courage, wisdom, faithfulness, and grace, serving as a powerful example for Christian men today.

Highlights of Stephen’s Life and Ministry

Stephen was “a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit” (Acts 6:5). As such, he exhibited numerous virtues:

1. Faith: Stephen’s faith was evident in his selection as a deacon and in his ministry. He trusted God deeply, which empowered him to perform great wonders and signs among the people (Acts 6:8).
2. Wisdom: When disputes arose, Stephen spoke with such wisdom that his opponents could not refute him (Acts 6:10). His knowledge of Scripture and his ability to apply it to current issues were unmatched.
3. Courage: Stephen displayed immense courage. Even when faced with false accusations and imminent death, he boldly proclaimed the truth about Jesus Christ and condemned the hypocrisy of the Jewish leaders (Acts 7:51-53).
4. Grace: In his final moments, Stephen asked God to forgive those who were stoning him (Acts 7:60). His grace and forgiveness mirrored that of Jesus on the cross.

Ways Stephen Pleased God

Stephen’s actions were undeniably pleasing to God. His deep faith, profound wisdom, bold proclamation of the gospel, and Christ-like forgiveness exemplified the character of a true disciple. Stephen’s willingness to die for his faith demonstrates the ultimate commitment to Christ, affirming his place as the first Christian martyr.

Key Principles

Stephen’s life offers several principles for men pursuing a godly life:

1. Commitment to Faith: Just as Stephen was full of faith, men today should cultivate a deep and abiding trust in God, relying on his strength and guidance in all circumstances.
2. Pursuit of Wisdom: Like Stephen, men should seek wisdom through diligent study of Scripture and prayer, enabling them to speak and act with godly insight.
3. Courage to Stand for Truth: Stephen’s boldness in the face of persecution reminds us that standing for the truth of the gospel, even in difficult situations, is essential.
4. Be Spirit-Filled: Seek to be filled with the Holy Spirit, allowing his power to direct your actions and decisions (Ephesians 5:18).
5. Live a Life of Integrity: Maintain honesty and integrity in all dealings, reflecting the character of Christ in every aspect of life (Proverbs 10:9).
6. Practice Forgiveness: Extend forgiveness to others, even in the face of wrongdoing, following Stephen’s example of grace (Matthew 6:14-15).

Bible Study Questions

1. What qualifications were required for the men chosen to serve in Acts 6:1-7?
2. How is Stephen described in Acts 6:5 and 6:8?
3. What signs and wonders did Stephen perform, and how did this impact his ministry (Acts 6:8)?
4. What was the nature of the dispute that arose against Stephen (Acts 6:9)?
5. How did Stephen’s wisdom and spirit impact his opponents (Acts 6:10)?
6. What false accusations were made against Stephen (Acts 6:11-14)?
7. Describe Stephen’s appearance before the Sanhedrin (Acts 6:15).
8. Summarize Stephen’s speech to the Sanhedrin (Acts 7:2-53).
9. How did Stephen challenge the Sanhedrin’s understanding of their history and faith (Acts 7:51-53)?
10. What vision did Stephen see before his death (Acts 7:55-56)?
11. How did Stephen respond to his executioners (Acts 7:59-60)?
12. What was Saul’s role in Stephen’s martyrdom (Acts 8:1)?

Questions for Discussion and Personal Reflection

1. In what ways do you seek to be “full of faith and the Holy Spirit” in your daily life?
2. How do you handle opposition or disputes, especially regarding your faith?
3. What steps can you take to grow in wisdom and understanding of God’s Word?
4. How can you demonstrate courage in standing for the truth in your current circumstances?
5. Reflect on a time when you had to forgive someone who wronged you. How did it impact your relationship with God and others?
6. What are the modern equivalents of the false accusations Stephen faced, and how can you prepare to respond to them?
7. How can Stephen’s example of grace and forgiveness influence your interactions with others?
8. What does being a godly leader look like in your family, workplace, or community?
9. How can you cultivate a deeper trust in God’s plans and purposes for your life?
10. What practical steps can you take to ensure your life is marked by integrity and honesty?
11. How can you use your spiritual gifts to serve others effectively, as Stephen did?

Action Steps

1. Daily Devotion and Prayer: Commit to a daily time of devotion and prayer, asking God to fill you with his Spirit and strengthen your faith. Set aside a specific time each day for reading Scripture and praying, asking God to guide you as he did Stephen.   
2. Study Scripture: Dedicate time to studying the Bible, seeking wisdom and understanding. Join a Bible study group or use a study guide to delve deeper into God’s Word.
3. Speak Boldly: Share your faith courageously, even in the face of opposition. Look for opportunities to talk about Jesus in your daily interactions, trusting God to give you the words to say. 
4. Forgive Freely: Extend forgiveness to those who wrong you, reflecting Christ’s grace. When hurt by others, consciously choose to forgive, praying for those who have wronged you and seeking reconciliation.

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father, we thank you for the example of Stephen, a man full of faith, wisdom, and the Holy Spirit. Help us to emulate his courage, his commitment to your truth, and his grace in forgiving others. Fill us with your Spirit daily, that we may live lives pleasing to you. Grant us wisdom to navigate challenges and boldness to proclaim your gospel as Stephen did. May our lives be marked by integrity, and may we extend forgiveness as freely as our Lord Jesus Christ and Stephen did. Strengthen us to be godly Christians and leaders in our families, churches, workplaces, and communities. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.